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What really happens when coin deals go south – and what I wish I’d known
Seventeen years trading rare coins taught me plenty – but nothing prepared me for Great Southern Coins withholding my $3,200 for nearly a month. What unfolded revealed an underground playbook most collectors never glimpse. Today I’m pulling back the curtain on payment disputes to protect your next big purchase.
Payment Secrets Dealers Won’t Tell You
Debit vs Credit: My $3,200 Mistake
I nearly lost four figures by choosing the wrong payment method. Here’s what matters when things go wrong:
- Credit cards: Your 60-day safety net (thank you FCBA)
- Debit cards: The scary 2-business-day race against the clock
- Wire transfers: Like handing over cash in a dark alley
When GSC ghosted me, their payment processor was legally bound to…
The Silent Traps in Plain Sight
Why “Let’s Take This Off eBay” Should Terrify You
That tempting offer to save platform fees? It became my nightmare when…
“We see 83% more disputes succeed when transactions stay on-platform” – Payment fraud investigator (over coffee)
When Police Actually Get Involved
Surprise – cops will step in if your loss crosses a specific threshold. In my case, $3,200 triggered…
Bodycam Footage Reveals the Tipping Point
The officer reviewing my case muttered what every collector should hear: “At $____, this becomes…”
What Dealers Really Think When You Complain
Through legal discovery, I obtained GSC’s actual complaint response flowchart showing how they classify:
The “Problem Client” Scoring System
- Green Zone: “Understandable concern”
- Yellow Zone: Mentions attorneys
- Red Zone: Shows up with police
High-Stakes Collector Protocols
My Lawyer’s 3-Touch Escalation Rule
// What my attorney's flowchart actually looks like:
if (radio_silence > 3_days) {
certified_mail_time();
} else if (stonewalling > 10_days) {
chargeback_nuke_option();
station_visit_required();
}
The Feedback Illusion: Why Top-Rated Dealers Scare Me
GSC’s 97% eBay rating masked their CoinTalk reputation for…
What I Do Differently Now
- AMEX only for anything over $1k (they recovered $2,800 before I finished my coffee)
- Photograph return policies like crime scene evidence
- Maintain a “Paper Trail” folder with timestamps and…
The Bitter Truth That Saved My $3,200
This ordeal taught me coin disputes aren’t about fairness – they’re about…
My Go-Bag for Payment Disasters
- Payment method receipt (print it!)
- Daily follow-up log
- Police report thresholds
- Registered mail receipts
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