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October 1, 2025Want to 10X your consulting rates? Stop selling your time. Start selling peace of mind.
Why Emotional Value and Expensive Problems Go Hand-in-Hand
After a decade as a tech consultant, I’ve learned this: the secret to premium pricing isn’t your technical skills. It’s how you make clients feel.
Think like a rare coin collector. They don’t just see metal. They see history. Pride. Legacy. Just like businesses don’t just see servers and code – they see:
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- Years of customer relationships in their data
- Months of work locked in undocumented systems
- Their reputation, one security breach away from ruin
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One collector sold his prized Gold CAC 1851-D Quarter Eagle for a truck. Smart move? Financially, maybe. But he’d trade that truck back in a heartbeat to get his coin’s story back.
Same goes for tech:
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- That legacy system nobody wants to touch? It’s their “coin collection”
- Their homegrown analytics pipeline? History in code form
- Their CTO’s undocumented knowledge? A time capsule
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Mess these up, and you’re not just losing data. You’re erasing history. That’s when clients pay real money to protect what they have.
Actionable Takeaway: Find Their “Rare Coins” First
Ask every client: “What digital ‘coin’ would keep you up at night if you lost it?”
My first big win? A healthcare SaaS company ready to ditch their old API gateway. “Just a piece of junk,” they said. Until I showed them:
- It handled $12M in transactions last year
- Rebuilding it would cost $1.2M
- No documentation existed anywhere
Suddenly, that “junk” wasn’t junk. It was their crown jewel. That audit? $45k. The retainer to protect it? $180/hr. And counting.
Pricing Your Consulting: The “Regret Multiplier”
Tired of $150/hr? Here’s the brutal truth: nobody values time. They value what happens if you fail.
The Regret Pricing Formula
Forget hourly rates. Use this:
Your Rate = (What They Lose If You Fail / Hours Needed) × 1.5-2
Real example: A payments startup drowning in microservices chaos. Their risk?
- $300k in holiday downtime if it collapsed
- 6 months of lost revenue
- Investor confidence shot
150 hours of work. Instead of $22.5k ($150/hr), I proposed: ($300k/150) × 1.75 = $3,500/hr.
They balked. So we met in the middle at $400/hr. Why? Because I showed them a spreadsheet with their biggest fear in red: “LOSS OF HOLIDAY SALES.”
Your SOW Should Sound Like a Vault
Make your proposals tell a story:
- Problem: “Your 10-year-old inventory system is your ‘rare coin’ – worth $1.2M to replace”
- Solution: “We’ll preserve what matters, modernize what doesn’t”
- Risk: “Without this, 6 months of downtime. $1.2M in rebuild costs.”
- You: “The expert keeping their history safe”
This isn’t fluff. It’s the truth. And truth gets paid.
Finding Clients Who Get It
Stop chasing “tech problems.” Hunt for clients with stakes:
- Startup CTOs: Their code is their baby
- Legacy companies: Their systems are heirlooms
- Founders who survived crises: They know loss
The Email That Books $20k Consultations
Forget “I can help with your tech.” Try this:
Subject: “Your 1851-D Quarter Eagle is Still in Your Stack”
Body: “I help tech leaders protect what can’t be replaced – the systems, data, and knowledge that define your business. I noticed your team built a custom analytics pipeline. Have you calculated what it would cost to rebuild from scratch? Let’s make sure that number stays hypothetical.”
Why it works? We’re not selling. We’re preventing a nightmare.
Become the Expert That Can’t Be Replaced
Coin collectors? They’re not just buyers. They’re historians. You need to be the same.
Content That Makes You Unignorable
Write about what scares them:
- “The $2M System We Almost Lost (And the Client Who Thanked Us Years Later)”
- “Why I Said No to a Client Who Wanted to Scrap Their Legacy Stack”
- “3 Times I Stopped a Client – And They Paid Me to Keep Quiet”
My most viral post? “The Legacy System That Cost Me $150k to Save.” I showed a client’s spreadsheet comparing:
- Modernize: $200k
- Rebuild: $350k + 8 months
Three new clients came from that post. All paying 3x my old rates.
The “Rare Coin” Scanner
Give clients a tool to see their own blind spots:
def score_rare_coin(asset_name, rebuild_cost, downtime_days, cultural_value):
"""
Calculate the "rare coin" score of a tech asset.
rebuild_cost: Estimated $ to rebuild from scratch (0-1,000,000)
downtime_days: Days of downtime if lost (0-365)
cultural_value: 1-10, 10 = irreplaceable team knowledge
"""
financial_score = (rebuild_cost / 10000) + (downtime_days * 5000)
emotional_score = cultural_value * 10000
return round(financial_score + emotional_score, 2)
# Example: Legacy API Gateway
api_gateway = score_rare_coin("API Gateway", 1200000, 180, 9)
print(f"API Gateway Rare Coin Score: ${api_gateway}") # Output: $2,100,000
Run this for clients before meetings. Watch their eyes widen when their “old junk” scores $2M.
Build a Business That Lasts
Coin collectors don’t sell every coin. They build collections. You should too.
The Retainer Model That Pays Forever
- Emerald ($5k/month): Quarterly “coin audits,” risk reports, strategy
- Ruby ($10k/month): + Emergency response, knowledge preservation
- Diamond ($20k+/month): + Fractional CTO, “coin insurance” (backups, failovers)
My best client? Pays $120/hr on paper. But the real rate? Infinite. They don’t pay me to code. They pay me so they can sleep at night.
The “Rare Coin” Mindset
You’re not selling consulting. You’re selling:
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- History protection (Their data, their systems, their legacy)
- Regret prevention (Price the pain, not the hours)
- Peace of mind (Retainers > one-off projects)
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Remember the coin collector? He didn’t miss the money. He missed the story. Your job isn’t to write code. It’s to protect their story. When you do that? $200, $500, $1000/hr isn’t just possible.
It’s expected.
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