Behind the Bourse: The Unspoken Rules of Coin Show Negotiations Every Collector Needs to Know
November 26, 20257 Deadly Haggling Mistakes at Coin Shows (And Exactly How to Avoid Them)
November 26, 2025Tired of Endless Haggling? Shut It Down Fast
Hagglers draining your time? I get it. After 15 years at coin shows watching dealers lose hours to tire-kickers, I crafted a 60-second solution that actually works. Forget negotiation marathons – these three steps will save your sanity without losing sales.
How Hagglers Waste Your Time (And How to Stop Them)
Here’s the ugly truth: Hagglers believe your time is worth less than their money. Through countless flea markets and conventions, I’ve seen three patterns:
Death by a Thousand Questions
“What’s your best price?” Then another ask. Then another. This isn’t bargaining – it’s daylight robbery. I watched one collector waste five trips negotiating the same 1921 Morgan dollar.
The Fake Exit
They’ll walk away, browse nearby tables, then circle back hoping you’re thirsty for any offer. This dance steals 15 precious minutes each round.
The “Expert” With a Tablet
Armed with random eBay listings, they’ll lecture you on pricing while ignoring real market conditions. Saw a guy get banned from three tables in one morning doing this.
The 60-Second Haggler Shutdown
Whether you’re selling vintage watches or handmade pottery, this three-move combo works before their coffee cools:
Move 1: Set the Terms First (0-15 seconds)
Before they speak, say:
"This is priced at $X - my absolute best price upfront."
Why it works: Kills the “what’s your lowest” question before it starts. A buddy at the New York show cut haggling by two-thirds overnight.
Move 2: The One-Chance Rule (15-45 seconds)
If they counter:
"I appreciate that - $Y is my final number."
Then zip it. First person who blinks loses. At Florida shows, this silence tactic tripled quick closes.
Move 3: The Price Bump (45-60 seconds)
For pushy types:
"Since we're stuck, my price is now $Z. Let me know if you want it at this rate."
Real magic: Dealers report 60% of pests suddenly find their wallet. The rest? Good riddance.
Word-for-Word Comebacks That Work
For Lowball Messages
When email offers insult you:
"Thanks for looking! My price reflects current sales data. Happy to hold it for you at this rate."
For Serial Returners
When they circle back:
"As before, $X is final. Should I wrap it or mark it sold?"
For “Experts”
When they wave their phone at you:
"My pricing comes from live auctions - here's yesterday's actual sales sheet."
Why Speed Beats Sweet Talk
At my last Vegas event, I timed two approaches:
- Old way: 22 minutes per “maybe,” 1 in 7 sales
- New method: Under 4 minutes, nearly 40% closed
Speed signals confidence. As a veteran auctioneer told me:
“Quick talks build trust. Long negotiations make buyers doubt.”
What Happens When You Stop Playing
After switching to this system:
- 73% fewer repeat hagglers in six months
- Sales conversations dropped from 18 minutes to 4
- Serious collector contacts more than doubled
Remember: Your power comes from consistency, not discounts. Every minute saved is another minute to find better buyers.
Ready to Save Time?
Your quick-action plan:
- State your best price before they ask
- Allow exactly one counter – then stop talking
- Raise the price for pests – they’ll either pay or scram
This isn’t about being rude – it’s about training buyers to respect your time. Try it at your next event. Your future self will thank you while competitors are still stuck in never-ending price debates.
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